Heartbroken 💔? How to move on ...

When someone gets heartbroken, one feels that he is going through an enormous pain that no one has ever gone through.
However, this is not the truth.

And most probably if you are reading this article then you are looking for someone who can help you in moving on after breakup.

Its You

Well, what if I tell you that the person you are looking for is the one you see in the mirror every morning while brushing your teeth & fixing your hair.

Yes, its you. That's it. If you can't help yourself after breakup, no one else can. Okay , if you still want a friend who may help you, then that friend is Time .
It will heal your pain slowly. But you need to look up into the mirror just like you did before. Don't see yourself as a broken soul. Even if it's pretending , then pretend that you are the same person who you used to see every day.

Stop thinking of past

Stop thinking about the good times you had with your partner or GF or BF or whatever it is. This will only drag you back. And, you are here to move forward, right ? Don't  think of even the bad times you had or how rude & irrelevant your Ex was. Because, if you recall one bad memory, your brain will throw ten good memories at you. Yes, that's how our brain works. Just don't think anything about it. Keep yourself engaged in things that make you happy.

Develop new hobbies

Develop new hobbies. Just remember how many hours of the day you used to spend with your Ex. Use that time to learn something new. Think if there is anything you wanted to do but your relationship didn't allow you to do that. Well, do it now.  You have time and you have freedom. Go, travel the journey that you always wanted to.
You never know, you may discover a new YOU.

Your Friend will rescue you

I told you, in this journey to move on, your only reliable friend will be Time. When you'll be engaging yourself in things that make you happy or learning some new things, a certain stage will come after a considerable amount of Time, when you will find yourself free from those feelings of despair, pain & brokenhearted. Your friend would've rescued you.

You will realise the life is beautiful again & that it was always beautiful. All that was required was a courage & you had that & you reached where you wanted to.

Let me tell you a secret thing about me.

You know even I was heartbroken once. Wanna know what I did next ?
I moved on.

                                 

©Manjul Jagotra

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