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Heartbroken 💔? How to move on ...

When someone gets heartbroken, one feels that he is going through an enormous pain that no one has ever gone through. However, this is not the truth. And most probably if you are reading this article then you are looking for someone who can help you in moving on after breakup. Its You Well, what if I tell you that the person you are looking for is the one you see in the mirror every morning while brushing your teeth & fixing your hair. Yes, its you. That's it. If you can't help yourself after breakup, no one else can. Okay , if you still want a friend who may help you, then that friend is Time . It will heal your pain slowly. But you need to look up into the mirror just like you did before. Don't see yourself as a broken soul. Even if it's pretending , then pretend that you are the same person who you used to see every day. Stop thinking of past Stop thinking about the good times you had with your partner or GF or BF or whatever it is. This...

Scored low in exams. Some life lessons from a 76 percentier.

Before you read : Guest writer: Chetan Bhagat My sincere thanks to one of the biggest writers of India Mr Chetan Bhagat for writing this article . It has inspired me at the first place , I hope it'll inspire all the students out there . __________________________________________ As a 90% aggregate becomes as common as kissing in our movies (no big deal) and cut-offs for good colleges become insane, we wonder if there is anyone who hasn’t scored amazing marks. In the noise of high scorers, we often forget the lakhs of students who score in the fifties, sixties and seventies. We brand them mediocre. We offer them succour with a few articles that cite low scorers who became billionaires or movie stars and have headlines that scream ‘marks don’t matter’. Well, if they didn’t matter, why on earth would everyone be chasing them, is a question they don’t answer.This article is addressed to those low scorers. It’sfor that average guy X who scored, say , a 7...

That girl on the Scooty

DISCLAIMER: Just third post on this blog & I decided to write something from women's perspective. I hope I won't disappoint you. If I do, please forgive me. Here we go...                 " That Girl On the Scooty" "That's my scooty's key, not your earpin" I yelled at my younger brother who always annoys me whenever I'm in hurry. Anyhow, I was able to get my keys back, "Mummaa look he pulled my pony again"... He always irritates me... Okay, I rode my Honda Activa & rushed out of my house. I had just crossed the first street & there they were, just like every other day, the busy shop owners, busy with there customers & when free,  busy with staring at passing by girls. Actually, they stare even when they have customers, the  only difference a customer's presence makes is that they can not discuss the scores that my figures get on their scale of ten. Otherwise, I can hear them scaling me 5 when I wear Indi...

NevertheLess; Being Human

Will you ever settle for anything less than you deserve ? Unless you are too content with your life, your answer will be 'obviously not'. Everyone wants high scores in exams, a high paying job, a big house, a luxury car. So, no body likes 'less'. Oh sorry ! I forgot how much you like that wire'less' smartphone in your hand or a back'less' dress when going out for a party. People want cashless economy as well(I hope Rahul Gandhi isn't reading this) . We may survive with less or more of these things but one thing we can not afford is going emotion'less'. For having emotions is a trait that differentiates us from & marks our superiority over the other creatures of the world. Losing this trait would mean losing humanity & losing something that keeps us humane.  When someone kills someone in some part of the world, just because the other person doesn't belong to his religion/community, that is because ...

Do Not Spoil Love

"LOVE" , a word consisting four letters connecting 7 billion people of the world. We can't survive without it. A baby needs mother's love, a teenager needs friends' love & an adult needs his/her partner's love. I don't know why but this last kind of love is somewhere getting lost or being mocked at by so called lovers. When a thing of adults is practiced by teenagers, its almost obvious that it will lose its meaning & the outcomes will be undesirable. Suppose of a drug that can be injected to a person 30 years old or of more age. Now if a 13 year old consumes that drug. What will it do ? Will it work accordingly ? I don't need to tell you the answer. You can guess that very well. Similarly, when this dose of Love required by adults is consumed by minors ( not in age , but minors with their level of maturity & sense of understanding life), this Love-dose works like that wrong-placed drug only. Spoiled with brain; when a 15 yea...